When I was growing up, my Mom had a Thanksgiving tradition of a game involving Scrabble letters. We would pass the velvet bag around the table and draw out one or two letters. Then you had to go around and say something you were thankful for that started with that letter. Literary concepts and thankfulness? My mom nailed it.
Except I hated it. I had the dramatic teenage girl thing down (for years) and was quick to dismiss and roll my eyes. (Thank goodness I did not have to parent myself.) I thought it was cheesy. It’s a miracle my Mom kept me around.
Now that I have a family of my own, that is my very favorite Thanksgiving tradition.
My husband and I have been married for 6 years, but we’ve only spent two of them together. He has had to work every Thanksgiving since he started residency, so this is the fourth year in a row we are not spending Thanksgiving together. I am not brave enough to embark on Thanksgiving travel alone with a toddler (even though I am totally supermom when it comes to traveling alone with a toddler) so for the past four years my son and I have had hod-podge Thanksgivings and one year we spent it completely alone, just me and a then one year old.
Still, I pull out my favorite memories from childhood on Thanksgiving. My mom’s amazing cranberry relish (no, really, it’s so good!), a turkey from Honey Baked Hams (because it’s so much easier and that’s what we always had growing up) and the Scrabble game.
My son loves picking out the letters, and even though we are still working on his letter sounds, he thinks it is a great game and associates the velvet Scrabble bag with Thanksgiving.
Even though my Thanksgivings as an adult haven’t turned out to be the family events I once hoped for, I am so thankful to pass down my favorite Thanksgiving traditions to my son. And I have so very much to be thankful for.
What are your favorite holiday traditions?